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Adolescent
Behaviroral Problems
Adolescent behavioral problems and
the life events that lead to shaping adolescent behavioral
problems are the main factors responsible for creating traits
that can lead to substance abuse and chemical dependency.
Adolescent behavioral problems affect one of the most important
periods of life when a teenager is in transition from childhood
to adulthood. Whether or not a teenager experiencing adolescent
behavioral problems will become harmfully involved with chemical
dependency is greatly contingent upon their own personal development.
When a parent ignores adolescent behavioral problems it can
be considered as a crude form of enabling. Without confrontation
adolescent behavioral problems can rapidly become a serious
threat to a teenagers future and their potential to lead a
healthy productive life.
A young adolescents demand for freedom and the ability
to cope with it, intensify greatly through the teenage years.
They strive for independence and have a new found need to
make decisions that affect their own life. The toughest task
for a parent is deciding when to intervene on these decisions
and when to let the adolescent stand on their own. Rebellion
against authority and especially parents, is not only a normal
adolescent behavior problem, it is an essential one. Hormonal
changes begin to affect behavior; sexual desires begin to
weave into the daily life at a time when teenagers are most
likely to feel undesirable and insecure about their appearance.
Peer pressure from negative role models to socially conform
is one of the most common adolescent behavioral problems that
can create substance abuse that leads to dependency.
A physical and emotional eruption of this magnitude is going
to cause internal pain, and the pain is almost certain to
surface in some form of behavior. Obnoxious behavior - loudness,
rudeness, insensitivity, depressive mood swings, excessive
lying, lack of discipline, bad grades, bad habits, or sloppy
grooming. Are these just the phases of a normal adolescence
or should they be considered valid adolescent behavioral problems?
How are these behaviors affected when drugs and alcohol enter
the picture? The following questions about adolescent behavioral
problems can help the parent decide if their teenager is experiencing
a phase period or should take measures and seek
out treatment.
Is
your childs life in danger? Are they experimenting with
drugs that are dangerous drugs (Heroin, Barbiturates, amphetamines,
cocaine, etc.). Does your child drive while drunk or under
chemical influence? Have they ever been arrested for drunk
driving? Have they been in any serious automobile accidents?
Is your child withdrawn and silent for long periods of time.
Are they friendless? Is your child suicidal ? Does he or she
have any eating disorders? Is your child a threat to the property
or physical well-being of others? Do they carry weapons or
are they constantly getting into fights? Do they participate
in acts of vandalism? Does your child practice any form of
self-mutilation (Home made tattoos, piercing, or self inflicted
cuts or burns)? Do they hallucinate or report hearing voices?
Does your child reflect invincibility or exude excessive energy?
Will your child probably not complete high school? Has he
or she dropped out or been kicked out? Is your child upsetting
home life? Is your own mental health or job performance suffering
because of your childs behavior? How is your childs
behavior affecting other siblings? Is your child sexually
promiscuous? Are they worrying about pregnancy or sexually
transmitted diseases? Is your child in trouble with the law
or any legal system? Do they confer with any bad role models
or delinquent individuals?
A
yes answer to any of these questions does constitute adolescent
behavioral problems that could warrant treatment or therapy.
The final decision to intervene should be discussed thoroughly
with the highest degree of concern among members of the family.
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